With my new schedule at work, I’ve been wanting to update here more often. So far, that hasn’t happened. I’ve been so tired from working especially picking up overtime since my relief has been sick a lot lately (we’re all concerned about him) so I’ve been covering some of his shifts. And don’t know what to post about. I have ideas but I don’t know how relevant they are, how I feel about posting about them, how well I could write about them, etc. So I’m going to ramble which I can be rather adept at, usually when it’s not necessary (I’m not much of a talker in real life and especially bad at explaining things.)
Something that has been bothering me is the need of some people to impose their spirituality and their spiritual practices on everyone else. That their personal devotions are the only devotions that are allowed and should be followed. I’ve seen people push the Rosary, the Brown Scapular, the Divine Mercy Chaplet, Carmelite or Charismatic spirituality, St. Theresa of Liseux, St. Padre Pio on people usually by saying these private devotions will “cure” everything; that they are the only prayers one needs; that by not conforming they are being “Protestant;” that they have all the answers. They don’t recognize that each person is unique and prays in the way that they can and that God calls them to pray in the best way for Him to reach that person. What works for one person may not work for another person. I don’t feel called to Franciscan spiritual though the Church recognizes it as one of many beneficial spiritualities and the Church doesn’t have a problem with that. The Church Herself doesn’t adhere to one spirituality and doesn’t require Her children to either because She recognizes that each of us are unique individuals, not automatons.
Yet there are Catholics that believe and demand that there is only one spirituality/devotion that is absolutely necessary, usually the one that the person is trumpeting. They refuse to acknowledge or accept otherwise. This is a huge turn off, even detrimental if they want more people to learn about, practice that spirituality or devotion. If someone is in my face about the Rosary, telling that just by praying it once all my problems will be cured, that everything wrong with me will be healed in a moment, that it’s the only prayer a woman needs, and won’t listen to anything I say, that’s a huge turn off to me. I’ve had this happen to me and have seen it a lot. I would have a hard time taking this person seriously because even the Church doesn’t say this. The Church and Jesus himself never said that prayer was magic. Yet people treat devotions and spiritualities like this which is detrimental to not only the person being encouraged to try a new devotion but also to the devotion/prayer itself. The Church treats its members as adults yet people like this treat fellow Catholics like stupid children who can’t be trusted to dress themselves.
Faith isn’t a feeling yet this seems to be a big problem for people who go looking for excitement, for entertainment, etc. in the Mass. I’ve posted here about Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman and the effect that TV, movies, Internet, etc. have on people. I see this play out in the Mass not only in the Ordinary Form but also in the “young people” who seek out the Extraordinary Form. Now, not all those who seek out the EF are necessarily looking for entertainment but I believe there are those that do go for ‘the show.” People my age have been raised almost exclusively on TV, movies, the Internet exploded with us, etc. and that has an effect on how we view our faith. How much of this is TV’s fault and how much is our fault? And don’t our parents play a role in all this? People are taught to be entertained, to constantly seek out pleasure, to seek out the latest newest fad, to seek out the pretty lights and flashy clothes. I’m not trying to denigrate the EF but I am pointing out that people’s reason for seeking out one particular Mass over another is impacted by our excessive exposure to the media and entertainment and that people need to be aware of this. If you are looking to get something out of the Mass, you are completely missing the point. You are at Mass to worship God, not to be entertained by Him.
Why is it if someone hears something questionable in a homily they automatically assume the priest is a heretic? I’ve seen multiple posts to this effect on a forum I belong to. Why can’t it be that Father just doesn’t have the innate talent for homilies? Or that he’s sleep deprived and he’s lucky enough to stay awake long enough to celebrate Mass? Or that he practiced his homily one way but it came out another way and he didn’t realize it until after Mass? Or that he’s still afraid of public speaking no matter how much prayer and practice he’s said and done? Or that he’s still a new priest and still learning? Or that the priest doesn’t and probably won’t put things the same way you do? People seem to be waiting for the priest to make one teeny tiny mistake so they can pounce on him and denigrate him. Isn’t the media and the Devil doing enough of that already? If you denigrate the priesthood, you denigrate Jesus himself. Maybe you should think twice about what you say about a priest. Don’t criticize unless the priest asks for constructive criticism otherwise it’s all about putting someone down to puff yourself up and there’s something very, very wrong with that. It’s called sin.
When did Latin become the only language in the Church? Considering there are 23 sui juris Churches, only one rite the Latin Rite uses Latin. Greek, Aramaic, Russian, Arabic, and probably a language or two, at least, that I can’t think of are also used in the Liturgies. Latin is only applicable to the Latin Rite and even then wasn’t the only language used in the Latin Rite. The Latin Rite has never been uniform in it’s use of Latin in it’s liturgies. It’s only with the Council of Trent and the suppression of other rites at that time that Latin really came to dominate the Latin liturgy. Yet, even Latins still use Greek when we pray Kyrie eleison (Lord, have mercy). And one does not need to pray in Latin to have their prayers heard or answered. God’s bigger than that but I still see people saying that we need to pray in Latin and that only prayers said in Latin are “effective.” Considering God is the one listening and answering prayers, I think He’s the only to judge if praying or not praying in a particular language is necessary for it to be effective. I’ve only come across Him saying that we need to pray and St. Paul saying to pray without ceasing but nothing about all our prayers need to be in Latin.
All of us are on a journey in our faith. We each follow the same path using a roadmap that is unique to each of us. What works for you may not work and probably won’t work for me but that doesn’t mean that you should abandon it because it only applies to you. God didn’t create clones, He created individuals whom He loves as individuals but also as His children. God doesn’t pigeon-hole us so don’t pigeon-hole others in their journey and how they live their Catholic faith. Your eyes should be on Christ. Don’t take them off Him or you will lose your way.