Why I have problems with certain views espoused by certain types of Catholics:
Your personal preference/opinion is not Church doctrine.
I see this rather frequently especially in regards to topics such as women, the Ordinary Form of the Mass, private devotions, people who don’t bow down and worship at the poster’s feet for their opinion (this one comes up the most), evolution, altar servers, dress code, et al., etc. At the end of the day, we all need God’s help and grace not our hand smacked away because we are asking for help. I see so much of the hand smacking and not enough the hand grasping and lifting someone up.