I’ve been meaning to update here but life got in the way.
Why do people have to denigrate someone to support their position? If Person A doesn’t agree with Person B, do so charitable, don’t resort to name calling the person or the position the person has taken. Person A is quite able to disagree with Person B’s position on Position X but Person A should do so in a way that does not resort to calling Person B names or saying that Positions X is stupid or pointless or even inferior. You can demonstrate that someone’s position is ill-thought out through logic and well supported reasoning.
“Traditionalists” and I qualify that, denigrate those who do not worship the EF (Extraordinary Form) and attend the OF (Ordinary Form) solely. And yes I mean, worship the form and not in the form. They name call those that who attend the OF liberals and heretics and stupid and refer to the OF, a valid form of the Mass, as an inferior product that comes from the Devil and Protestants. I have yet to see a “Traditionalist” say anything positive about the OF and practically condemn them to Hell those that don’t agree with them or attend the EF solely. “Traditionalists” seem to prefer denigrating people rather than sharing in love their love of the EF. Basically, the only Catholics they will call Catholics are the ones that worship solely in the EF, pray exactly like them in Latin, think their own view in the only view, put down and condemn those that don’t agree or worship exactly like them, want uniformity instead of unity (they want automatons rather than individuals created in the image and likeness of God), and berate people for even thinking the OF is valid.
Now, there are people who prefer the OF solely who also denigrate the EF but those seem to be few and far between compared to the ones that denigrate the OF. It’s like the only position to qualify as a “Traditionalist” is to hate and especially the OF and to bring up abuses that haven’t happened in 30, 40 years. (I haven’t seen anything that truly qualifies as an abuse in the nearly 30 years I’ve been attending Mass. I have seen things that were questionable but they didn’t last long.) Yet people seem to think their preference is set in stone rubrics that must be followed or the Mass isn’t valid and they are going to find another parish. Wow. Didn’t know the Mass was about us. I thought and was taught it was about worshipping God.
We are taught to love our neighbor. Not love somebody only if they completely agree with us on every little thing. That’s impossible and dangerous.