Liars, Thieves, and Cheaters

I’m done with Josh Duggar. But I’m not done with talking about how abusers affect their victims. They are liars.  They lie about the fact that they molest children, hit children, yell and scream and threaten children. They lie about hitting women, raping women, threatening women, isolating women.  They lie about hitting men, raping men, … Continue reading Liars, Thieves, and Cheaters

A Letter Myself

Dear Me, It’s okay to feel bad.  To hate that you were spanked.  To hate that you were abused.  To cry. It’s okay to say hitting a child is wrong.  It’s okay to say spanking is indeed hitting.  It’s okay to say that children have rights. It’s okay to mourn the child you didn’t get … Continue reading A Letter Myself